i guess there will be always a hint of bitterness unless people come clean to me, but i don't think it will be happening soon.

Looks like some people choose to just ignore a problem, hopeing it will just fade away. But it will never really fade away, all it does is leave a string of broken relationships. That's why i chose to take action last Friday. Better to have trashed it out then just leave it the way it is. Don't let there be space for any misunderstanding. Don't care what other's think? Are you able to live with that burden of being unforgiven? Oh, you can? Then what about the other person who has to live with the bitterness? Hope that the person can release it too? Not everyone is the same and can live with such burdens. Come clean, don't let there be space for misunderstanding.

Maybe that's why i did something last Friday. Been seeing too many broken relationships due to misunderstanding. The heck care attitude is only going to things worst, and that could be seen with the growing rift then. So let the misunderstanding get worst by keeping quiet? There may already be bad blood, but what would an acupuncturist do? Bleed it out. If nothing is done to address the bad blood, it may get worst, damaging the other organs.

So here's my point of view. Choose to ignore it you can, but treatment is always better then not doing anything at all. There is always a chance of getting better if you take action. But you never take action, it will never really be resolved. So what's your take?